The first step in receiving inheritance money is to determine if you are an heir. An heir is someone who is named in a will or who is entitled to inherit property under state law if there is no will. 

If you are named as an heir in the will or trust, you are entitled to a share of the estate. If the deceased had a will or trust, their estate will likely go through a legal process called probate.

This process involves validating the will, paying off any debts or taxes owed by the deceased, and distributing the remaining assets to the heirs. 

The probate process can take several months to a year or more, depending on the complexity of the estate and any legal challenges that may arise. 

Once the probate process is complete, you will receive notice of your inheritance. This notice will typically come from the executor of the estate or the trustee of the trust. 

It will explain what assets you are entitled to receive, how much they are worth, and any conditions or restrictions that may apply. 

Once you know what assets you are entitled to receive, you will need to choose how you want to receive them. Depending on the assets involved, you may have several options. 

if you inherit a house, you may choose to sell it or keep it as a rental property. If you inherit cash, you may choose to receive it as a lump sum or as a series of payments over time. 

Once you have chosen how you want to receive your inheritance, you will receive the assets.